你幸福吗？你还记得你幸福的时光吗？你在寻找幸福吗？
许多人已经找到了各种各样的幸福之源。有人把他们的心投入工作，有太多人求助于毒品和酒精。同时，不计其数的则在拥有名贵的汽车，异国情调的（异国的）的度假别墅和其他流行的“玩具”。他们的大部分努力都有一个共同的事实：人们正在寻找一种持久的幸福源泉。
不幸的是，我相信幸福是逃避许多人的，因为他们误解了寻找之旅。我听到很多人说：“当我得到新的提升的时候，我会幸福的。”。或者当我减掉20磅的体重时，我会感到很高兴。“这是很危险的，因为它承认，幸福是一种“反应”，或者做某事。
在生活中，我们都经历过刺激（激励）和响应。今天，有些人认为昂贵的汽车是一种刺激，和幸福是一种反应；一份高薪的工作是一种刺激，和幸福是一种反应；一个充满爱的关系是一种刺激，幸福是这样的信念让我们和响应。感觉思维：“我会开心的时候…”我发现事实正好相反。我相信幸福是一种刺激和反应是生活给那些真正幸福的人。当我们幸福的时候，我们往往会在我们的工作中取得更大的成功。当我们幸福的时候，人们想要围绕着我们，享受爱的关系。当我们幸福时，我们更容易照顾好自己的身体，享受健康幸福的我。不是一种反应而是一种刺激。
幸福是一种有意识的选择，我们每天的生活，对我来说是未知的原因，很多人选择痛苦、失败和愤怒，大多数时候，幸福不是发生在我们得到的东西，我们通常会得到我们想要的东西后，我们选择幸福。
Happiness Is a Choice
Are you happy?Do you remember a time when you were happy? Are you seeking happiness today?
Many have sought a variety of sources for their feelings of happiness.Some have put their hearts and efforts into their work.Too many have turned to drugs and alcohol.Meanwhile, untold numbers have looked for it in the possession of expensive cars, exotic (异国的) vacation homes and other popular "toys". Most of their efforts have a root in one common fact:people are looking for a lasting source of happiness.
Unfortunately, I believe that happiness escapes from many people because they misunderstand the journey of finding it.I have heard many people say that, "I'll be happy when I get my new promotion. or I'll be happy when I lose that extra 20 pounds." It is dangerous because it accepts that happiness is a "response" to having, being or doing something.
In life, we all experience stimulus (激励) and response.Today, some people think that an expensive car is a stimulus, and happiness is a response；a great paying job is a stimulus, and happiness is a response；a loving relationship is a stimulus, and happiness is a response.This belief leaves us the thinking and feeling:"I'll be happy when..."It has been my finding that actually the opposite is true.I believe that happiness is a stimulus and a response is what life brings to those who are truly happy.When we are happy, we tend to have more success in our work.When we are happy, people want to be around us and enjoy loving relationships.When we are happy, we more naturally take better care of our bodies and enjoy good health.Happiness is not a response but a stimulus.
Happiness is a conscious choice we make every day of our lives.For unknown reason to me, many choose to be painful, unsuccessful and angry most of the time.Happiness is not something that happens to us after we get something we want-we usually get things we want after we choose to be happy.
